R L ParksI am sharing this story in case it can help someone like me, but it's not just my story. I want to respect the privacy of my friends and family who are included. I especially do not want to shame anyone who has changed and long been forgiven. Not eveyone changes when it comes to this topic, and there were some that had to be left behind so that I could be free of their toxic judgement. But those who did change have my respect and appreciation. I was not the only one who was judging blindly (in my denial). We grew up in a social and religious culture that interfered with what our hearts might have decided without that influence. I hope you understand the choice for anonymity. It is not shame or fear. I'm living a proud and happy life now. I hope you are too. Read More Read Less