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恋爱之路--一步一步走向幸福的指南


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A,婚姻是什么? 婚姻到底是什么?婚姻是爱情的结合还是利益的结合? 恩格斯《家庭,私有制和国家的起源》告诉大家一个观点, 婚姻的本质并不高尚,但它也并不邪恶,婚姻是社会经济发 展到一定阶段的产物,成年男女之间为了更好地生活下去, 结合成的一个利益共同体,所以它的本质是利益,是合作, 是相互满足对方的需求! 它掺杂了很多复杂的东西,有很多利益的纠葛,它不是 纯粹的简单的爱情,它有精神共鸣,有信赖,有安全,有钱, 有物质性的陪伴,有接纳,有抚慰,有互动,有肌肤之亲, 有内心的满足,还有共同抚育下一代的利益捆绑。所以你明 白了这一点,就知道婚姻的本质,它就是一场合作,婚姻没 有必要非得打扮成爱情的样子,把爱情当作婚姻的全部,那 你就会感觉婚姻是爱情的坟墓,走进婚姻之后,你会很痛苦。

B,好的婚姻是什么? 对一个男人来说,最底层的婚姻思维是传宗接代,延续 香火,他的标准就是看对方年不年轻?能不能生?长得漂不 漂亮,身材好不好? 中层的婚姻思维是什么?就是要找一个事业的帮手,找 一个能够阶层跃升的工具,我要找一个贤内助。我家有五套 房,你家有三套房,咱俩一结合,八套房挺好,或者是你爸 是企业家,我爸是政治家,咱俩一结合,门当户对。 顶层的婚姻思维是什么?就是要找一个人生的合伙人, 他一定是把灵魂契合放在第一考量,考量的是什么?情绪稳 定的能力,相互包容,人品、三观。 对女人来说,你认为婚姻是用来遮风挡雨的,婚后发现 你人生当中的风雨都是婚姻带来的,能够今天为你遮风挡雨 的人,他也会为你制造风雨。婚前你认为爱情很重要,你要 嫁给爱情才幸福。婚后你会发现,婚姻当中自我的成长更重 要,这才是幸福。婚前认为婚姻仅仅就是感情的交换,有情 人终成眷属,婚后你会发现,其实婚姻就是一种价值交换, 让自己始终充满价值是你终身的大事儿。年轻的时候你有容 貌的价值,生育的价值,提供物质的价值,年老了呢?你应 该想清楚,这些价值是不存在的,你的价值是什么?女性朋 友们,婚前你会认为你负责挣钱养家,我负责貌美如花,婚 后你才发现,旗鼓相当的婚姻,它才会更长久,你负责赚钱003 �������� �������� ❤ 养家,而我负责勤俭持家。 你认为好的婚姻是遇到对的人,其实不是,好的婚姻是 遇到好的自己,在这段关系当中,在这段关系的滋养下,不 断地去寻找,发现,遇到一个最好的自己,而不是遇到一个 好人。你的一切人际关系,包括你的爱人都是在帮助你,辅 助你成长的,而不是单单让你依赖的,让你依靠的!

C,婚姻的必要性

D,找到对的人进入婚姻的必要性



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Product Details
  • ISBN-13: 9781803770789
  • Publisher: Billson International Ltd
  • Binding: Paperback
  • Language: Chinese
  • Returnable: N
  • Weight: 240 gr
  • ISBN-10: 1803770783
  • Publisher Date: 01 May 2024
  • Height: 210 mm
  • No of Pages: 162
  • Spine Width: 9 mm
  • Width: 140 mm


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