Why can you not stop eating? You have already doubled in weight, it ruins your health and social life, you already know that it relates with your attitude toward food and eating in general, but you do not know exactly how to control it, how to improve your behavior, and how to control yourself. What can you do?
Why exactly are you incapable to control your sexual abnormal activity? You promise yourself and those in cause to put a stop, to change your sexual attitude, but when the time comes, you simply run out of control, again, and you cannot help it. Why? What can you do?
And why can't you just turn off your computer and put a stop to your videogames? Because you have been playing videogames for years now, you did nothing this whole time, while your real life is simply wasted away. You promise yourself and those around to start living normally, you mean it, but you cannot control yourself, and just continue playing. How can you control this attitude toward videogames, when your games can offer you a virtual abundance while leaving you with a scarce real life? What can you do? And when you stop playing videogames, you find your way into the dark side of the Internet, it is dangerous there and it costs you your life and freedom, if you do not control your attitude toward your bad or illegal virtual behavior. But you simply cannot stop, so what can you do? How can you control your virtual and real behavior now, after everything that you ever tried failed?
It is even worse when you get in the dark side of the real life, when you commit real crimes, because these outcomes are harder to control indeed, mostly after the point of no return, along with all decisions, attitudes, and thoughts behind them all. How can you change your real, dangerous attitudes now? And can you even control them and their outcome?
To go further, why exactly did you have to lose your family only months or years after starting drinking heavily, or after your intense, passionate extra conjugal affairs, or after your long, costly visits to the casino, or after all your bad business and entourage? Why does this have to happen to you in particular, while others simply enjoy normal lives, in relative happiness and content? Is it because you are bad? Is it because of your karma? Is it because your father had these same problems with violence and addiction? There must be a correlation with your attitudes here, you must find it, and hopefully, it helps you tame yourself, and get your life back before it is not too late. But can attitudes actually be controlled, mostly the subconscious and social attitudes? What can you do?
If you are not in the cases above, then you still have some time left in order to learn what to do to control your attitudes, to control your intelligences and mind entirely, because if you do not, then nothing can help you once you lose control of your judgment and behavior, of yourself, even if you do so only shortly.
Throughout this book, we are interested in creating a detailed model of the human attitudes, meant to explain why and how everything happens, how attitudes control your reasoning, behavior, and entire interconnectivity, only for you to learn how to remain in control, how to get your life back the way it was, before is not too late.
