Ninety percent of life is how you respond to events, not how they happen to you.
Though not quite mature, nor quite "Little Girls" A teenager's upbringing is not simple. Being a parent in their twenties makes raising a child considerably more difficult. Managing everyday chores while working and finishing school would be challenging for any adolescent.
The years between being a girl and growing into a woman are quite important, as I discovered a few years ago.
These are the truly important and consequential years, the preteen and adolescent years. Your adolescence is just beginning in middle or high school when our daughters are neither quite grown-up nor quite tiny girls anymore.
The Years that Count are These...
These young women, who are between the tween and adolescent years, are changing daily. Teens and parents alike go through a time of change and development during adolescence. Girls in their teens face a time in their lives when they have to make crucial decisions about their friends, careers, sex, smoking, drinking, drugs, and parental values. Girls experience notable physical, social, and emotional changes at the same time.
That period when people pretend not to need you as much as they once did, but in reality, they do. They will need our life lessons more than ever once they start to feel like adults.
Studies indicate that during their adolescent years, we should spend more time with them. You have the opportunity to raise your kid to be the kind of adult you want her to be since she won't be your 13- or 14-year-old daughter for very long. These are the times when something does matter. Establishing a connection with your teenagers is crucial. These adolescent years are significant!
You should pick an activity your youngster enjoys doing and engage in it with her. Go somewhere with them, play that computer game, do makeup, kick the ball around the yard, or just spend time talking to your daughter while sitting still.
Any parent who is willing to raise their kid to be a good woman should read Nurturing Moral Humans: How to Raise Teenage Girls.
This book will teach you:
- Handling Your Daughter's Stress and Anxiety
- Bringing up a Teenage Daughter in the Internet Age
- Handling the Dangerous Behavior of Adolescent Girls
- Recognizing the Adolescent Brain and Adolescent Girl Behavior
- Handling Feelings And Acts Aggressively
- Gaining autonomy and life skills
Parents may not be the individuals that adolescents choose to spend their entire lives with, but their behavior as teenagers is greatly impacted by them. But it will get simpler for both of you if you communicate with them and treat them with the respect you wish to receive. We must support them rather than give up on them. Not only will the family remain stronger and more resilient, but the relationship will also improve.
