About the Book
Greetings to you seeking a WAY OUT of your present highly-distressing, heart-wrenching, and, often, incredibly sorrowful, marital/love partner OCPD dilemma. You desperately want to have your relationship HEALED so the two of you might enjoy each other again. As one who has diligently researched, studied, and extensively written about the OCPD phenomenon, for years, immersing myself in this bewildering and exasperating world, including direct and intimate contact, and who has dedicated himself to OCPD eradication, I can tell you with confident assurance that your individual, spousal situation CAN be GREATLY IMPROVED. First, You will learn about the absolute necessity of INSIGHT, what it IS, HOW its acquired, and put to constructive, creative, goal-attaining use in the nurturance of the Health and Strength of your marital or romantic/love relationship. And it is this very understanding, and implementation, which will prove wholly instrumental in your life as a couple becoming more of an adventure and a fulfilling and enjoyable affair, as opposed to a hurtful, struggle-filled, and problematic one. Numerous concrete examples of OCPD couple situations and interaction are presented, explained, and sufficiently explored to CLEARLY show you how to make of your lives together ALL that you had ever desired. Second, You will learn of the many detrimental mindsets your OCPD lover typically has, and what underlies and motivates them, such as An Unteachable Spirit, Readiness to Reject Answers and Solutions, Refusal to Self-Reflect, Insistence Upon Circular Thoughts and Cyclical Conversation, and Detecting Others' Faults without Realizing They Possess the Identical Faults. Specific, effective means to circumvent and/or alter these mental behaviors, and resultant actions, are set forth for your adoption into a wholesome, pleasing, partnered lifestyle. Third, your OCPD spouse or mate will be introduced to powerful, Truth-Laden Messages to 'renew their mind', and cause them to become ever-the-more AWARE of Life's Great Laws governing human relations and happiness. As it is their sheer IGNORANCE of these Invisible (yet outcome, observable) Laws which has brought you, as a couple, to your present state of ongoing opposition, and brink of disaster. But, their consistent application can transform your lives, together, into one of Harmony, Cooperation, and Joy. Fourth, You will be shown how to successfully tell your beloved spouse they do, indeed, have a thinking/emotional disorder, without their taking offense, feeling insulted, or becoming alienated. You will be shown how to CORRECTLY use Approach, Choice of Language, Setting, Attitude, and Suggestion to your greatest advantage as a couple. And Fifth, You will be handed 'The Golden Guiding Principle' to ENSURE your relationship as a couple continues to be repaired, grow, and blossom. For, if there ever were a Principle of Interaction that stands out above all the rest, affording the most IMMEDIATE 'gain' to the non-OCPD person, in terms of maintaining one's peace of mind and domestic tranquility, this is that principle! So, start your wholly worthwhile education and healing journey, TOGETHER, today! And, with dedication and perseverance, the outcome of your union will be your liberation from a world of couple unhappiness, disappointment, argument, conflict, and tormenting fear. You, and your spouse, deserve a life of true relationship Freedom! Do not continue on as a suffering captive, trapped by your OCPD spouse's injustices inflicted upon you. Nor continue on as a cruel, hurtful OCPD taskmaster, dominating and controlling your mate, anymore! And a life of increasing relationship Satisfaction, health-promoting Marital Harmony, and Deep Heart Fulfillment will be yours! With Every Good Wish for your TRULY possible, future Harmonious Life as a couple! Be well! The AuthorP.S.: Also, acquire: The OCPD Basics Study GUIDE, Relationship Restoring, The Companion Book-to this volume! G
