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Words Not Spoken is a father's first-hand account of raising a son that could not speak or adhere to basic social norms - and his fight to find an alternative to institutionalization when his son reached adulthood. Author Lawrence Markin did not even know what autism was when his son Eric was diagnosed in 1988 at the age of two. Few people did at that time. Mr. Markin's journey over the next two decades - from his initial quest for knowledge, to what it was like living in a household consumed by chaos, to the unique living arrangement he fought to make happen when Eric became an adult - is detailed with brutal honesty and raw emotion. The author's wit, wisdom and honesty evoke both humor and pathos throughout the narrative.

Mr. Markin describes how people's ignorance about autism and the challenges of raising a son as severe as Eric greatly affected the family's personal relationships. He talks about how Eric's early behaviors - taking his clothes off in public, grabbing other people's food and other embarrassing but innocent incidents - got more serious as Eric got older, resulting in broken windshields, broken bones and police visits. Frustrated by efforts to secure community-based housing for Eric as an alternative to being institutionalized, Mr. Markin ultimately purchased his in-laws' house and had it razed and reconstructed specifically for Eric to live in as an adult, with staffing support funded by the state. The house has been featured in the Chicago Tribune and other publications.

Words Not Spoken does not purport to offer textbook lessons on autism, although embedded in the human drama are facts about autism's prevalence, history, causes, treatments and some of the latest research. What it does provide are real-life lessons, describing in stark detail what life was like for one family with someone whose special needs were beyond what most people with autism have. Rarely do we hear about people as severe as Eric because they have historically been stashed away and forgotten. Mr. Markin's account draws open the curtain to reveal the challenges posed in making life livable for all involved with such family members, and the difficulty in finding a suitable long-term solution.

Words Not Spoken tugs at the heartstrings. With the continuously increasing awareness of autism, it is a serious eye-opener for anyone wanting to know more about this condition, and what life is like living with the most severely afflicted.
About the Author: Lawrence Howard Markin is a successful Chicago businessman with a son at the far end of the autism-severity spectrum. As president of Sherman Plastics Corporation in Naperville, Illinois, he leads a recycling business that has received multiple grants from the state. As father of Eric Markin, he helped blaze new trails for other parents of children with autism, particularly those with the highest levels of severity. Eric, almost totally non-verbal and unable to conform to social norms, would have been institutionalized for life not long ago. Mr. Markin forged a better solution, becoming an advocate for community placement over institutionalization and helping create what is now considered a best-practice model in Illinois. He tells his heartfelt story in Words Not Spoken.

Mr. Markin is active in the autism community, serving on the board of directors of Anixter Center, one of the largest non-profit organizations in the Chicago area serving people with special needs. Each year, Anixter serves close to 10,000 people with physical, cognitive, developmental, sensory, psychiatric and/or medical-related disabilities. Many of these people have more than one disability and most have incomes below the poverty level. Through residential, employment, leisure and therapy programs, Anixter helps its clients live as fully and independently as possible.

Before joining the Anixter board, Mr. Markin ran his own charity, the Progressive Services Network (PSN). Driven to help fill the void in programs and supports for people with special needs, PSN's mission was to raise funds for a range of programs for the special needs community. After 10 years, Mr. Markin decided to discontinue PSN at the end of 2014 to focus on Anixter's cutting-edge programs.

Mr. Markin has been a voice for other parents of children with autism, helping convey their challenges to legislators, educators and policymakers to effect positive change for people with special needs - particularly when they become adults. His purpose in writing Word Not Spoken is to convey my experiences to others that have loved ones with autism so they may learn from my mistakes, and maybe benefit from some things I did do right. For the rest of you, I hope you'll gain some insight into this disorder and what parents of children with autism are living with each day - and how it doesn't end when the child reaches adulthood.


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Product Details
  • ISBN-13: 9781098375300
  • Publisher: Bookbaby
  • Publisher Imprint: Bookbaby
  • Height: 147 mm
  • No of Pages: 202
  • Spine Width: 18 mm
  • Weight: 390 gr
  • ISBN-10: 1098375300
  • Publisher Date: 03 Jun 2021
  • Binding: Paperback
  • Language: English
  • Returnable: Y
  • Sub Title: Inside the Walls of Autism
  • Width: 224 mm


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